@ocdtrekkie@mastodon.social The fact that this is a concern but the broken relationships aren’t is maybe the whole problem in a nutshell.

@aredridel@kolektiva.social As someone who is rarely/never targeted by abusers, I definitely would benefit if we leaned the decisionmaking the other way, but I think safety has been a big part of this network’s DNA for a long time. Not sure that will or should change in core.